How the Compatibility Audit works
It's not a compatibility score. It's a deeper understanding of your relationship.
What makes the Compatibility Audit different?
Many couples know what they love about each other. Fewer have explored how their expectations, values, communication styles and future ambitions fit together in everyday married life.
The Compatibility Audit goes beyond surface-level questions to examine both individual perspectives and the relationship they create together.
- Individual reflection: understand what matters to you, what you expect, and what you may be taking for granted.
- Two perspectives: in the Couple Audit, each partner completes a separate private questionnaire, so both viewpoints are considered fairly.
- Meaningful conversations: bring important topics into the open in a guided, constructive setting.
- A written Clarity Report: the key areas of alignment, differences, open questions and subjects that deserve further discussion.
- Your decision, your responsibility: Hazem Salah does not prescribe whether you should marry. The purpose is to support an informed decision, not make it for you.
Your journey to clarity
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Reflect individually
Each participant explores their expectations, values, relationship needs and vision for the future through an in-depth questionnaire.
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Explore what matters
In your personal or joint session with Hazem Salah, the focus moves from answering questions to understanding what your answers mean for your future together.
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See the bigger picture
Your written Clarity Report brings the findings together: areas of alignment, differences to explore and questions that need more attention.
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Move forward with awareness
Use your findings to guide your next conversations and decide on your next steps with a clearer understanding of yourselves.
Choose the audit that fits your journey
Couple Audit
The most comprehensive way to explore your relationship together. A relationship has two perspectives. Understanding both reveals where you share the same vision, where you see things differently, and what deserves an honest conversation before marriage.
- Two separate, private questionnaires
- A 90-minute joint session with Hazem Salah
- A written Clarity Report comparing both perspectives fairly
- Key areas of alignment, differences and topics for further discussion
Neither partner needs to see the other's private answers. What is shared in the joint session and report is explained in advance.
Individual Audit
Start with the one perspective you can explore fully: your own. Perhaps your partner isn't ready yet, or you have questions to answer for yourself first.
- An in-depth private questionnaire
- A 90-minute individual session with Hazem Salah
- A personalized written Clarity Report
Best for personal clarity before marriage. It does not compare two partners.
Go deeper (optional): the Relationship Dynamics Lab
An optional, deeper look at how you interact in practice. How a couple describes its relationship and how they respond to each other in real time can differ.
This optional 60–75-minute guided session, supervised by a licensed specialist, uses structured observation to explore your interaction patterns. The findings are incorporated into your final report.
Love is a beginning. Make understanding part of yours.
Hazem Salah
Led personally by Hazem Salah, ICF-certified relationship coach
Pre-marital program questions
What exactly is the Compatibility Audit?
It's a structured pre-marital program for couples or individuals considering marriage — not for those already married. It combines a detailed private questionnaire, an optional 75-minute behavioral diagnostics session, a live 90-minute session and a written Clarity Report, designed to help you see your relationship clearly before deciding about marriage, not after.
Does the Audit tell us whether we should get married?
No — this is the core principle behind the entire program. The report presents both paths — proceeding with marriage, or pausing / not proceeding — with equal weight and no personal recommendation from me. The decision is entirely yours.
What's the difference between the Individual and Couple Audit?
The Individual Audit is for one person — useful if your partner isn't ready to participate yet, or if you want clarity on your own decision first.
The Couple Audit involves both partners completing separate, private questionnaires (neither sees the other's answers) followed by a joint session, giving a fuller, cross-referenced picture. It is priced higher, reflecting its more complete scope.
Are questionnaire answers kept private between partners?
Yes. In the Couple Audit, each partner's responses are private — your partner never sees your individual answers unless you both choose to share them.
How long does the process take, from questionnaire to report?
The questionnaire is completed privately before the session. The optional behavioral diagnostics session runs 75 minutes, and the live session runs 90 minutes. The written Clarity Report is delivered by email as a PDF within an agreed timeframe after the session.
What if my partner isn't willing to do this with me?
That's exactly what the Individual Audit is for — you can still gain real clarity on your own, even if your partner isn't ready yet.
Is there a lower-cost way to start?
Yes — a short, free self-reflection assessment is available as a first step. It offers a general, non-personalized reflection and isn't a substitute for the full Audit, but it's a useful start if you're not sure you're ready.
What is the Relationship Dynamics Lab, and is it required?
It's an optional add-on available only with the Couple Audit — a calm, structured 60–75-minute session for behavioral observation, supervised by a licensed specialist, so you can see how you actually interact under mild real-world conditions. It is never mandatory.
Do I need to have doubts about my relationship to do the Audit?
Not at all. Many couples do the Audit simply to enter marriage with full clarity and confidence, not because something is wrong.
Give your relationship the chance to be understood
Before you make a commitment that shapes both your lives.